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Originally Posted by Reptile_Reptile
thank you yet again i'm really trying my best
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i tell my children that as long as they can look themselves in the eye in a mirror and say i done my very best there was no more i could have done then theres nothing more can be asked of them.
your best is your best how can anyone ask more of you...!!
what im about to write is not aimed at any one individual
im getting a tad sick of the way some folk on here seem to think they should be lifted up onto a pedastill for the advice they give out.
then when they don't they throw a strop and get aggresive with their posts.
its not rocket science to work out if a particular thread makes you behave this way.imo the soulution is post your view then just dont go back to it.
yes theres a few folk who come on and ask for advice then when you give them your help they dont take it or argue against it.but surely the more experienced keeper should be able to seperate these kind of folk from the genuine ones who take on board what they're being advised.
also your post of advice wont be wasted as im sure there will be plenty newbies read and take on board said advice without us even knowing.
imo agressive posting will not only scare away the the non responsive newbies but it is in danger of scaring away all newbies.(from at least asking questions anyway).
theres a very popular forum in the uk thats just went that way.folk are scared to post,scared they make typo's,its basically a ruined forum destined to fail.
there seems imo to be a new less tollerant atmosphere on here lately and that can only lead to other more decent newcomers leaving the forum and looking else where for there information.
there are a lot of experienced and knowledgeable keepers on here but lately a select few seem to have next to no paitence with the newbies.
i cannot understand why they get involved if they feel so angry about it
yes we all need folks advice from time to time.lets face it no one was born a bloody herpetologist
so why is it of late that a selct few just cant play nice with others ???????
as said at the begining of my post this is NOT aimed at any single person i just happenesd to use this thread to say my piece
all just my humble opinion of course nothing more
cheers shaun
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