I was chatting to an "old guy" i met through the Pain Support group i am in on the weekend. He is well into his 80's yet looks about 55!! I could tell he had some military in him just by the way he conducts himself and talks.
OVer our Xmas meal and a glass of scotch he opened up a little about his career and experiences - man i could have listened to him for DAYS!!
Turns out he cant say much as he is still restricted by the Official Secrets Act but i know enough about how the military works to figure out his "code" for what he was doing.
Basically he joined up as infantry, ended up as a PT instructor for the Marines, transferred to "4-man squad work" (Special Forces or SAS) and ended up bodyguarding for royalty and also for Margaret Thatcher!!
He learnt to pilot aircraft, drive pretty much any motorised vehicle from bikes to tanks and "did and saw lots of things that i wish i never did, and wish that i can forget" (a direct quote)
That man had a life that we can only imagine, gave 40 years of his life to Queen and Country, was shot, blown up and experienced unimaginable things and yet he lives in a basic flat, has no help, lives in constant pain, has parkinsons
It is disgusting that those that give so much receive so little support when it is most required, if i had my way he would be living in the lap of luxury and looked after 24 hours a day by a squad of nurses/chefs etc and be able to see out his life this way.
I wish i could write his life story so that when he goes there will be something to remember him by...........