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Old 11-04-03, 10:20 PM   #31 (permalink)
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I think I should be honest with you all. I DID go into her e-mail and check her sent items to see what she had sent to him. Because I didn't know anything at the time and I didn't exactly trust her... and it turned out I was right. So I dunno, if I hadn't found anything I think it would have been wrong of me. But I think the fact that I was right SORT OF justifies it.. but not totally.
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Old 11-04-03, 10:22 PM   #32 (permalink)
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HAHA What are you talking about? You break her trust because she breaks yours?

Frankly you are both in the wrong and should split ways.

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Marisa, please don't tell me you can't see the difference between these two "breakings of trust"
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Old 11-04-03, 10:27 PM   #34 (permalink)
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Of course. Doesn't mean yours was right. If someone is acting in a way that is not good for you, the way to deal with it is talk to them. Not spy on them.

Both are wrong, and a relationship would be hard to manage at this point since both of you have broken trust.

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Very true. What if after you've talked to them, you still don't trust them? And you try to talk more with them about it and they just get frustrated and OBVIOUSLY don't wanna talk about it?
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Old 11-04-03, 10:32 PM   #36 (permalink)
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Just to make it clear. I know it was wrong of me. I just think it would have been far worse if I had been wrong.
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If you talk to them and they say nothing is going on, but they are still acting fishy and with othe behaviours you don't appreciate you say goodbye. That simple. You can't force anyone to love you, or even tell you the truth. You can only decide for YOU what type of behaviour and people you want to continue having around you or not.

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But then there will always be that thing in the back of my mind about whether I did the right thing... maybe there was absolutely nothing going on and she was just in a bad mood? I'm sorry I don't mean to keep you here or anything. Let's agree to disagree... though I don't think we disagree much. I know it's wrong.
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Old 11-04-03, 10:46 PM   #39 (permalink)
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Hey J Man the bottom line for you is her lack of respect for you(like corey and others have said) She is playing on your emotions and your hormones (not to mention 2 million years of evolution) She is having fun at your expense. Here is the deal she wants to dump you for the "new guy" but she wants you to break it off with her so she does not have to do it ( her biggest fear presently) I know it is tough but it is life if you wan't more info pm me and i will do what i can to help you slide through this.


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Thanks a lot hip... I may do that. I never though about that though... her not wanting to break it off with ME. Wow, that's really upsetting. I'm gonna go
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by the way, that thanks a lot wasn't sarcastic... just realized it kinda looked like it.
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Old 11-04-03, 10:50 PM   #42 (permalink)
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Corey is right Kick her *** out and i will give you my wife....lol

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Old 11-04-03, 10:53 PM   #43 (permalink)
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There are so so many other girls in the world you found one ..find another...the best way to forget is in the arms of another cutie..10cents per dozen
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Old 11-05-03, 11:35 AM   #45 (permalink)
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I agree chase... but I've been with her for so long. She USED to be my whole life and since she's gone I have none... nowhere to go and nothing to do. So it's sort of hard to go out and find people. I know, I keep using that wording.
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