I used to have a little book called...
Don't sweat the small stufff....and it's all small stuff.
When something is bothering me I just ask myself this...
It this going to matter to me an hour from now?...a day from now?...a week from now? a year from now?
If there is anything the nonconformist hates worse than a conformist, it's another nonconformist who doesn't conform to the prevailing standard of nonconformity.