Attitude I am talking about means everyone isn't always fake a cushy...life isn't like that, and forums aren't like that. People argue, people say mean things, discussions get heated...its just life. Trying to force a forum to be fake and constantly hugging will cause it to die simply because perfect happy friendly people can be quite boring in some cases. Ever see the "Edward Siscorhands" neighborhood in the movie? Everyones lawn is perfect, at 7 am all the cars pull out for work exactly the same time, and differances freak them out, etc.