You poor thing =(.. But Boidkeeper is right. If it was like that before you even got married then it is probably for the best that you split now, instead of after marriage with the merging of finances and possible children.
Dont be sad- you will bounce back. Buy yourself a new herp to ease the pain. As a woman, I can tell you, a little shopping will ease the pain of any breakup.
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