As for the gotta have it! I cant help you there sorry
As for the boyfriend lol we went through that as well but I was the one who hated the things lol
Now I love them they grew on me and it will happen with your bf you need to include him in everything dont say " I want "
Show him pics ask him what he likes the best if he is negative do the what if approach etc. Give it a try and gl to you.
From me Christina