ya well now that you've explained the situation a bit, which i was waiting for before i jump on the sankes before a woman bandwagon, here's my2 cents. Do what you can to make a go of it with the snakes but your girl is right to be a little nervous its not the situation she signed up for. snakes are like crack and can be very addictive. Moneys not evil you've just been a little irresponsable with it. Just make what ever decision is best for you. In the grand sceme of things we cant really tell you what that is.