Hey Chris, I understand completely,
My girlfriend is the same way, but I got into herps AFTER I met her, and I wouldn't give her up for anything, as she makes me complete...
But so do my herps, as I do need other things that make me happy. She understands that and "puts up with it." That is all that I can really ask. I think that that is enough, as I can't imagine her cleaning a huge pile of boa poop out of a cage with risk of being bitten (there is always SOME chance...)
I would also not like having an iggie poop in my bathtub, so maybe you could have a rubbermaid on hand to throw the junk in the tub in until you get to cleaning it? That way he can have a poop free tub.
PS I dont know that much about iggies, but why does it poop in the tub?!?! That surprised me!
0.1 Corn Snake (Anery), 1.1 JCP (High Yellow), 1.1 BRB, 1.0 Albino BCI, 0.1 Het Albino BCI, 1.0 GTP (Jayapura type)