hey sould reaper, I think Marisa was talking about Zoe... not you.. to me she seemed to be 'fighting' for people to be able to do and act and dress they way they want, whereas Zoe was more like well they get in my face etc etc.... but who knows anymore!!
I say if it makes you FEEL good, then DO IT... if it makes others uncomfortable, well they can leave.
Just my $0.02
If toast always lands butter-side down, and cats always land on their feet, what happens if you strap toast on the back of a cat and drop it?"