smoking is a horrible, dangerous habit. but in no way should someone let it affect their relationship with someone they love. if you love someone, you accept them, faults and all. i can see alcoholism coming between ppl, but smoking? come on! sure, if you don't like it, have the person smoke outside, that's not a problem. but it should end there. not ruin a relationship. that's just ridiculous.
but if we are talking about young children here, that may be something different. i am not sure on everyone's ages here.
you contridicted yourself SO many times in that one post - lol
my parents love my sister, just have given up on trying to raise her with rules to bide by. he has done drugs, she drink, she smokes, and they have had enough. they have even threatened to call the police on her for domestic violence (which i dont see why they dont) ...