Has it been said that scars are being left on the girl? To leave scars would most definetely be abuse and I would never, ever defend that, but I don't remember anyone saying anything about that. Maybe I missed some posts?
"He is your friend, your partner, your defender, your dog. You are his life, his love, his leader.
He will be yours, faithful and true to the last beat of his heart. You owe it to him to be worthy of such devotion."-Unknown