I just have no clue what you are saying.
You are saying either we shouldn't judge her because of her last life experiences?
Or we shouldn't judge her without more information?
Either case....if something happened to her before, big deal. Lots of horrible things happen to millions of people. No excuse.
Or the information thing.....unless that information happens to be "man forces woman to undress in front of underage boys" then she is still at fault, and I hope she goes to jail. In fact, I don't think she should be raising any boy.
I just have no clue how else you think this story may have happened that would take her out of the wrong. But everyone has their opinions, including me.