Help from the people on this forum is definatly a bridge that I wouldn't want to burn. I by no means buy your "stressed out" excuse, but whatever it takes for you to get back on the tolerant side of some of these people. It's hard for me to forgive someone who says that we "pushed "you out of the hobby. Playing the guilt card is just about the lowest you could have gone, in the forums at least.
Just do me, and everyone else in this forum a favour. Look high and low for an answer to your questions BEFORE you post them here.