I think that is goes both ways, people should be more careful to be clear in their posts, and also not to read too much into other people's posts.
All of us are very passionate about our hobby, and I think raising herps is not an exact science, but an art. There are many different ways of doing things, and each of us have our own preferences.
I do not think it is necessary to have a separate forum for kids, in fact, I have learnt a lot from the 'kids' here, they are more mature than some adults I know.
Besides, there is nothing really offensive like nudity, violence or swearing that is not fit for kids.
Personally, I enjoy the discussions we have here, they are a wealth of information. Like Marisa said, if all we did was agree with each other, it would be rather boring...