I'd say kick her out the door. I could never be with a guy who didn't like reptiles. If she'll let you keep them, that's cool, but if she wants them completely out then nuts to her. If she really wanted something she loved, would you stop her? Of course not - a relationship is a 50/50 thing, a little give and a little take. For example, you could agree to keep them only in a designated herp room.